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The Right Way to Ask for the Haircut You Actually Want

by Damian Lai on May 21, 2025

The Right Way to Ask for the Haircut You Actually Want

Whether you’re sitting in the chair for the first time or you’ve been seeing the same barber for years, knowing how to communicate what you want is the key to getting a great haircut.

We’ve all been there — pulling out a photo from your camera roll, saying something like “just a little off the top,” or mumbling the classic “just clean me up.” The truth is, the difference between a decent haircut and a great one often comes down to clear communication. A few specific words can help your barber understand exactly what you want — and leave you feeling a lot more confident walking out.

Here’s how to make sure you walk out of your next appointment with the haircut you actually had in mind — without the guesswork.

1. Start With the Basics: Talk Length

Break down the haircut into sections:

  • Top: How long do you want it? Trimmed slightly? Cut in half? Left untouched?

  • Sides: Do you want a fade? A taper? Something even all around? Mention the guard number if you know it (e.g. “a number 2 on the sides”).

  • Back: Ask whether you want it squared, rounded, or tapered — this small detail changes the whole finish.

If you’re unsure about terminology, that’s okay — your barber can walk you through it. But having a rough idea helps set the direction.

2. Bring a Reference Photo (Seriously)

One of the easiest ways to explain your desired haircut? Show it.

Photos speak louder than words, especially in the barbering world. Whether it’s a celebrity cut, a Pinterest style, or even a previous photo of yourself after a cut you liked — bring it. Just keep in mind:

  • Your hair texture matters — a thick curly cut won’t behave like fine straight hair.

  • Face shape and hairline play a role — a skilled barber (like ours at Empire) will adjust the reference to suit you.

Think of the photo as a starting point, not a carbon copy.

3. Explain How You Style Your Hair

What you do after the haircut matters just as much as the cut itself. Your barber will tailor your cut to fit your daily routine, but only if they know it.

Tell them:

  • If you use products (pomade, clay, mousse, etc.)

  • If you prefer low-maintenance, wash-and-go styles

  • If you blow dry or air dry

  • If you brush it back, part it to the side, or let it do its thing

The goal is to make the haircut fit your lifestyle — not turn your morning routine into a 30-minute styling session you’ll never commit to.

4. Be Real About Your Hair Type & Preferences

You might love a certain cut, but if your hair isn’t cooperating, it won’t last. Be honest about:

  • Hair thickness (Is it thin, thick, patchy, etc.?)

  • Growth patterns (Cowlicks? Uneven sides?)

  • Problem areas (Receding hairline, dry scalp, etc.)

Also, speak up about what you don’t like. If there was a part of a previous cut that bothered you (like sideburns too short or fringe too heavy), say so. Barbers appreciate the input — it helps them deliver exactly what you want.

5. Trust the Process (And Your Barber)

Remember: You don’t have to know all the technical terms — that’s our job. But the more you share about your style, needs, and preferences, the more we can tailor your cut.

At Empire Barbershop, we take pride in translating your words (or photos, or vague gestures) into precise cuts that work for you.

If you’re unsure, say so. We’ll walk you through it and make recommendations based on your hair type, face shape, and personal vibe. That’s the Empire standard.

Final Tip: Don't Wait Until the End to Speak Up

If something’s off during the cut — length, shape, blend — let us know during the session. We want you to walk out feeling confident, not disappointed. Communication is key, and the chair is a no-judgment zone.

Ready for a Cut You’ll Actually Love?

Say goodbye to haircut regrets. At Empire Barbershop, we make the process easy, collaborative, and personal.

Speak up, sit back, and stay sharp. Book your next appointment now at empirebarbershop.com.au.